Well for those in the UK it is blazing hot..It is the summer time that everyone has been waiting for and now we all can’t cope..This is us ,human beings we are never satisfied with anything,I bet everyone can’t wait for winter and the snow.🌧☔️
I went to the beach yesterday with the kids as I could not cope being in the house,mind you the kids are on school holidays for 6weeks ,ha,bitter sweet isn’t it? I was already tired of the “Mum am bored ” especially in this heat.Am sure Mother’s can relate to this.
Now here is the question that I ponder with and I know women of my age(30s) ponder with. What do you wear in this heat ?
I mean I come from a culture where people are judgemental about how you dress or look if you are a mother.You get the looks especially when you wear anything that leaves your legs on show or your upper region on show..I mean I have done it myself during school runs,we always give the eye to that woman that is wearing shorts that leave the bottom butt hanging.Is it appropriate or we are being judgemental?
I mean I love shorts ,they are comfortable in this weather but are they appropriate for a woman or mother like me who has a huge/or not so small natural behind..I was born like that it’s all natural but should I hide what I have got or not wear what I want with the fear of being judged..
I have come to the conclusion that it’s not fair to judge or to impose culture or society beliefs on anyone,people should be able to wear what they want as long as they are comfortable and it makes them happy.Who is to say ,or make that decision on what is appropriate for anyone.There is so much going on in the world than to worry about another woman ‘s choice of outfit.
Personally I am over it and I have made a decision to wear what ever makes me happy and comfortable this summer.I am doing me and so should every body..